Hey, My new years resolution is to finally start a garden (no flowers) and stop procrastinating. I live in New Jersey about 1/2 hr from Manhattan and need help since I've never done this before. And although I once killed my mother's cactus, I actually think I can do this if I was told how to do it right. What do I have to do first? How long do I have to wait before I can actually plant something? PS Who knew that you could "over water" a cactus?