I need a but of advice. Basically there are 2 chefs in my kitchen that I struggle to work with when we have to work on the same section. One is an apprentice and one is his mum who is the same rank as me I think. Now I struggle to get the apprentice to listen to me and during a busy service it is essential that you work together. I can kind of understand it. I come across as a bit dippy at times but never the less I know what I'm doing a lot more than him and I'm about 4 times faster than him. So I need him to work with me but I have a hard job asserting my authority. His mum isn't quite such a problem because I don't have to work with her much because she works in the morning. His mum has more experience than me but you wouldn't know it. She's messy disorganised and is always in the shit when it;s busy. So someone has to take the leader role and I'm not happy to let her take it and she's not happy to let me take it. So I'm not to sure what to do.